Cake with friends.

Self-love is not so common sense, apparently.

I need girls to have more self-respect and value for themselves. Without these two things, you are no different than a prostitute. To go behind another friend’s back to gain what you desire is no way to respect your friend either. So I’m guessing by acting with such disrespect and backstabbing behaviour, you don’t value any of the times we’ve laughed and cried together. Please don’t be two-faced about this. Everyone would be a little more comfortable if you just came forward and admit you did what you did and then proceed to leave our lives forever. I’m sick of having to pretend that I don’t know so my friend who you’ve hurt can call you out on it herself.

Have you no guilt for any of this?

RESOLUTIONZ

I usually don’t do these, because I end up forgetting them but whatever. These are easy, and I’m an idiot if I don’t remember these.

1. Drink more water.
2. Limit myself to two Coke Zeros a day. Or a cup for lunch and a cup for dinner.
3. Run more. (I bought new shoes to remind myself I paid money out of my own pocket, so I better use the cool technology the shoe has…)
4. Become less attached to my phone. It has been pointed out that I can’t live without responding to my phone whenever it makes a noise, even when it’s on vibrate. Someone thinks it’s so important that all activity should be allowed to be halted in order for me to check it.
5. Spend less on clothes and by the end of this year, cut my wardrobe by a quarter? Is that fair? Basically, I want to get my wardrobe to staple, classic pieces. More mature clothes, less hipster shit.
6. Actually use the flash card app on my iPhone.

What I am proud of myself for in 2010 was my organization and drive to get things done early when I had the time and means to. I think it paid off nicely. Although the whole procrastination and complaining thing did pick up during finals week, I’m glad to say that only minor isolated occurrences of such arose during the majority of the year.

Hey 2011.

L-R: Serena (Ann Taylor tiered fringe dress, Target rhinestone belt) , Blair, and Dorota (Forever 21 dress)

These are the girls I began my 2011 with.

We had a little Gossip Girl theme goin’ haha. And at 12 am January 1st, 2011, I got my new year’s kiss in the cutest way possible. Was that real life? I’m still smiling over it.